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Author Topic: Wonen don't be afraid to express your wants and needs.  (Read 92 times)

jonie

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Wonen don't be afraid to express your wants and needs.
« on: February 19, 2013, 04:14:54 PM »

Don't be afraid to express your wants and needs to whoever cares ,ladies shouldn't hesitate to speak up. ought to be generous too and learn to compromise,I used to be afraid of people thinking I would turn up to be difficult or too critical, and you know, I don't really care about that anymore." Be your own advocate, no matter who thinks you're "difficult."
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Janet

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Re: Wonen don't be afraid to express your wants and needs.
« Reply #1 on: February 20, 2013, 02:42:33 PM »

Jonie, expressing our needs is not hard. To the men we love and care about,that is something different. When a man knows your every need, it is good, the problem is that you feel vulnerable. Besides, some men, no matter how many times you tell them your needs, they do not respond or pay attention so, why bother in the first place.
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Re: Wonen don't be afraid to express your wants and needs.
« Reply #2 on: February 20, 2013, 03:20:53 PM »

Express you wants and need is okay and a personal right but it should be restricted to those who care about us. It will look bad and annoying if you Express those feeling to those who do not care.
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OCHODIO MOSES

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Re: Wonen don't be afraid to express your wants and needs.
« Reply #3 on: February 20, 2013, 03:52:35 PM »

It is better to express your self for what you need instead of dying with the problem.
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Re: Wonen don't be afraid to express your wants and needs.
« Reply #4 on: February 20, 2013, 04:39:15 PM »

That is very right jonie.
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suzank

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Re: Wonen don't be afraid to express your wants and needs.
« Reply #5 on: February 20, 2013, 05:20:43 PM »

I am learning that some men are hating providing for their ladies ,it is their ladies they want to provide.Isn't it useless to present your needs to such men?
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jonie

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Re: Wonen don't be afraid to express your wants and needs.
« Reply #6 on: February 20, 2013, 05:39:48 PM »

yes we can Avoid sharing personal information especially with anyone. This is especially important if the personal information provokes deep feelings in you. This is because bonding starts from relating one with the other through empathy If there is room for a conflict of interest, then don't fool yourself.
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