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Author Topic: He dictates what I should put on.  (Read 422 times)

suzank

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He dictates what I should put on.
« on: January 18, 2012, 05:37:35 PM »

My man admires me only when I am wearing the clothes he has dictated. He forbids me from buying certain colors and some fashions, yet I some times need to be my self not his creation. What should I do?
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Re: He dictates what I should put on.
« Reply #1 on: January 23, 2012, 05:09:03 PM »
Try to talk to him and make it clear that your above eighteen years and if he fails to listen find someone who will give you peace of mind.
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sue

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Re: He dictates what I should put on.
« Reply #2 on: January 23, 2012, 06:14:22 PM »
Just do what he wants.. if you dont, he leave leave you for a woman who will do what he wants.
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wetaka

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Re: He dictates what I should put on.
« Reply #3 on: February 01, 2012, 04:10:17 PM »
My dear you have to have a life out side that man because at end of it all you wont be happy...tell him what your likes are and go ahead and do your thing girl friend or else you wont be happy forever ....remember marriage is a long life decision....
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Re: He dictates what I should put on.
« Reply #4 on: February 20, 2012, 04:57:19 PM »
 That is not good then,try to talk to him about your choices and preferences otherwise you will never be happy in yo relationship.
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suzank

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Re: He dictates what I should put on.
« Reply #5 on: February 20, 2012, 05:10:37 PM »
I Have tried to talk to him ,But he maintains that I should look the way he wants, not what I desire.This is a problem my dear because I'm not my self realy.
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Mary

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Re: He dictates what I should put on.
« Reply #6 on: February 20, 2013, 05:36:45 PM »
He has all the right  to do so because  he knows how you look best for him , remember you are only mean't for him  and only him.
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jo

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Re: He dictates what I should put on.
« Reply #7 on: February 20, 2013, 05:53:00 PM »
Be yourself my dear. Dont let a man dictate what you should put on
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Mary

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Re: He dictates what I should put on.
« Reply #8 on: February 28, 2013, 12:27:06 PM »
Sometimes, allow him him  become a dictator  mostly on ocasion's when together .
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Uganda Man

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Re: He dictates what I should put on.
« Reply #9 on: February 28, 2013, 01:49:04 PM »
If you love him, dress the way he wants. If you dont love him, then dress the way you want. You know, it is always good for your man to see you in the color and dress types he admires
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Re: He dictates what I should put on.
« Reply #10 on: February 28, 2013, 03:27:18 PM »
One of the most things for the ever lasting relationship is being flexible and therefore when you see that your partner hates something from you, try your level best to see that you do not repeat it.
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Re: He dictates what I should put on.
« Reply #11 on: February 28, 2013, 04:57:58 PM »
You just put on what he wants if you love him.
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