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Author Topic: He is telling me to abort my child...  (Read 1510 times)

wetaka

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He is telling me to abort my child...
« on: February 01, 2012, 04:15:56 PM »
I have been dating some guy from High School..our families are so close and thy have actually been giving us a go ahead in our relation but the challenge is recently i conceived but when i told my BF about it,  he told me to abort because he comes from a home of a cannon ..Is this fair really? I am really confused ..Help
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nsodo

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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #1 on: February 07, 2012, 05:47:14 PM »
There is no confusion and i am sure you know the consequences of abortion please do not abort because it is murder and if he knew he comes from a canon family he wouldn't have misbehaved.
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sue

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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #2 on: February 07, 2012, 06:18:43 PM »
Please dont abort. you even dont need to be confused of anything. Just leave that guy and carry on with your pregnancy.
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suzank

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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #3 on: February 07, 2012, 06:19:38 PM »
Why is he telling you to abort ? It shows he never loved you and neither will he tolerate the child.Live your life now and keep your child as a reward for the love you gave him for a while.
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wetaka

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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #4 on: February 08, 2012, 03:52:57 PM »
My confusion comes in because right now i am wondering wont he chuck me , or wont he refuse the responsibility of a child because i dont have a job to help this child alone...
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sue

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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #5 on: February 08, 2012, 04:02:10 PM »
Try to find a job or something to do because believe me my dear that man will not take up his responsibility. Consider him gone and move on with your life and the take care of the precious gift you are carrying.
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Nglenn

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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #6 on: February 08, 2012, 04:32:36 PM »
Wetaka better abort that child because you really do not know what it takes to raise a child. If he cannot take care of the responsibilitie s go ahead and do it and then look for another man who really loves you.
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sue

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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #7 on: February 08, 2012, 04:35:21 PM »
@ Nglenn, you talking like that as if it is a simple thing to do. have you thought of the consequences involved?? Wetaka dont do this
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Nglenn

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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #8 on: February 08, 2012, 04:38:08 PM »
Consequences can never happen if it is done by an experienced doctor. It is better to get rid of that kid than to live with a bastard
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sue

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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #9 on: February 08, 2012, 04:39:54 PM »
@ Nglenn..you seem to be experienced at this but i believe you know deep inside your heart that it is not the right thing to do.
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suzank

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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #10 on: February 08, 2012, 04:40:29 PM »
There are obvious consequences like having aborted it self ,it will stick in her mind up to death especially if she fails to get another pregnancy.
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wetaka

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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #11 on: February 08, 2012, 04:40:37 PM »
Nglenn you dont know the pain there is to abort your own blood...first of all i already have very high compassion for this child already
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sue

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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #12 on: February 08, 2012, 04:41:23 PM »
@ Nglenn..Imagine if your mum had done the same, would you be here?? it is a gift that Wetaka should receive with all her heart no matter what she is going through.
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wetaka

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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #13 on: February 08, 2012, 04:42:31 PM »
Nglenn i have had so many friends that have actually not succeeded while aborting and this is my great fear already..
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Re: He is telling me to abort my child...
« Reply #14 on: February 08, 2012, 04:43:04 PM »
Quote from: sue on February 08, 2012, 04:39:54 PM
@ Nglenn..you seem to be experienced at this but i believe you know deep inside your heart that it is not the right thing to do.
Where is it written that it is bad, it a way of excusing your self from the likely problems you might face with raising a kid without a father
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