Love is not blind, people just choose to ignore certain things about the people they are with when they begin dating and that is what love is all around. True, after you know him/her well, you will start getting nagged but honestly, marriage is just like everything in life. The same way you get to a new place, get excited at meeting new people, begin with a lot of hype but then go ahead and get used to the people, the place, start saying you hate this or that. Does that mean you no longer love the place? No, it simply means you are becoming impatient and want to move on. In marriage, you do not have the luxury of leaving. You are supposed to stay there. Take this attitude in marriage, you are living with a person you are going to take the rest of life learning and loving. Take one step at a time, when angry, remember, you cannot quit so learn how to please your partner and when hurt, talk about it. Spice it up to remind yourselves of the love you originally felt for each other. Bottom line, it is a process, one you cannot really excel in alone.