Let us be realistic, people do things, good or bad. But the chances of taking responsibility over your actions, no matter the outcome is always limited to excuses. It does not matter if you were seduced once or went out and got raped, or something went wrong, all that matters is that you do the right thing when the time presents it self. Sin is sin at all times, so is wrong doing. Do not say i wish this was not there, or so and so led me to do it, the truth is, you did it so, quit doing things, if you are not ready to face up to the challenges of responsibility. That is what makes a real man and a real lady. Taking responsibility, no matter how hard it is.