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Janet

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Men and responsibility
« on: February 01, 2013, 04:35:10 PM »

Someone once said, why do you sleep with a woman when you know you are not going to marry her and now iam asking, why do men do things but fail to take responsibility. If you know you are not up to going the extra mile for your actions, why not limit your actions?
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nsubugajohn

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Re: Men and responsibility
« Reply #1 on: February 01, 2013, 04:46:50 PM »

But you should know that the women themselves are the ones who cause us to do things. In this case, we are just trapped by them and yet we men were not yet ready for the responsibility.
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Re: Men and responsibility
« Reply #2 on: February 01, 2013, 04:52:08 PM »

 Sincerely i wonder about it.  If u start something i mean men make sure u finish it. its not good to hurt others
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Reginah

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Re: Men and responsibility
« Reply #3 on: February 01, 2013, 05:45:35 PM »

Very right Janet I wonder why men do such staff and in the end deny. That is why I opt for circumcision for any man who can't take up their responsibilitie s.
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Mahaja Moses

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Re: Men and responsibility
« Reply #4 on: February 04, 2013, 08:02:17 AM »

All that depends on the current situation with both of you,. if am ready i will take the responsibility but if not just expect the worst from me
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Re: Men and responsibility
« Reply #5 on: February 04, 2013, 09:10:05 AM »

Someone once said, why do you sleep with a woman when you know you are not going to marry her and now iam asking, why do men do things but fail to take responsibility. If you know you are not up to going the extra mile for your actions, why not limit your actions?

This all comes with lust. when ever you have lust for something you do things you're not supposed to do.
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Janet

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Re: Men and responsibility
« Reply #6 on: February 04, 2013, 02:53:26 PM »

Let us be realistic, people do things, good or bad. But the chances of taking responsibility over your actions, no matter the outcome is always limited to excuses. It does not matter if you were seduced once or went out and got raped, or something went wrong, all that matters is that you do the right thing when the time presents it self. Sin is sin at all times, so is wrong doing. Do not say i wish this was not there, or so and so led me to do it, the truth is, you did it so, quit doing things, if you are not ready to face up to the challenges of responsibility. That is what makes a real man and a real lady. Taking responsibility, no matter how hard it is.
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jonie

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Re: Men and responsibility
« Reply #7 on: February 04, 2013, 05:30:44 PM »

talk about it! however,ladies still have a part to play in this matter.
it is also your right as a lady to say no to such people(men).I have a friend who still want to have a kid with her ex the very same guy who denied responsibility after she had given birth to the son.
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suzank

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Re: Men and responsibility
« Reply #8 on: February 04, 2013, 05:35:42 PM »

Such a woman wants to have kids not responsibility from this man, she could also be in love ,but in real sense ,such a man deserves no kids
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wetaka

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Re: Men and responsibility
« Reply #9 on: February 05, 2013, 02:04:27 PM »

By the time you make a decision to impregnate someone, you should face it and takeup responsibility. ..any how men who fear responsibility have never come my way or else i would castrate them
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