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Author Topic: Confused with Campus Girlfriend  (Read 264 times)

Nglenn

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Confused with Campus Girlfriend
« on: January 22, 2013, 09:32:28 AM »
A friend of mine had a girl friend while at campus. They were close to each other but when they left campus they parted ways because of jobs. The girl did not wait for my friend and went ahead into a relationship with a married man. By the time my friend came back so that they organise their wedding she was already pregnant. She gave birth and is on her knees for the guy to consider her back. He is confused should he or should he not?
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Re: Confused with Campus Girlfriend
« Reply #1 on: January 22, 2013, 11:45:38 AM »
The bible is clear " Forgive and you will be forgiven" If he still has some feelings for her let him forgive him and continue with life.
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wetaka

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Re: Confused with Campus Girlfriend
« Reply #2 on: January 22, 2013, 03:42:37 PM »
Your Friend should follow his heart because this may be the only Lady he loves .... and he lands in the hands of those he doesnot love..
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OCHODIO MOSES

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Re: Confused with Campus Girlfriend
« Reply #3 on: January 22, 2013, 04:03:46 PM »
He is not confused but the lady is the one who is confused and i have come to learn that, the most confused people who will never learn are ladies.Let him get a another lady because that lady thought that her boy friend was not enough.
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jo

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Re: Confused with Campus Girlfriend
« Reply #4 on: January 22, 2013, 04:29:36 PM »
If he still loves her then why not forgive her? We all make mistakes and deserve to be forgiven .
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jonie

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Re: Confused with Campus Girlfriend
« Reply #5 on: January 22, 2013, 04:38:41 PM »
The lady realized her past mistakes and now she can make a good wife,let him take her in
who knows,truth could have it that the guy didn't propose early enough to the lady.
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Reginah

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Re: Confused with Campus Girlfriend
« Reply #6 on: January 23, 2013, 04:06:01 PM »
Jones you are right, mistakes are common. Please Nglemn reconsider your friend but dont forget to go for an HIV test.
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Mary

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Re: Confused with Campus Girlfriend
« Reply #7 on: January 28, 2013, 05:30:55 PM »
He needs self control  for stopping the  confussion    because he will end up being  mentally disturbed  and addicted .
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jo

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Re: Confused with Campus Girlfriend
« Reply #8 on: January 28, 2013, 06:16:24 PM »
No one is perffect and i believe he also makes mistakes sometimes. He should forgive her
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Re: Confused with Campus Girlfriend
« Reply #9 on: January 29, 2013, 08:15:31 AM »
Pregnancy is not like other mistakes friends, that means she trusted the other man very much and please just take another leaf from a tree, don't even listen to her because her trust is not with you
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Re: Confused with Campus Girlfriend
« Reply #10 on: January 29, 2013, 03:02:04 PM »
Finding out the one person you trusted did not take it seriously is a big blow to the head and it must be confusing for your friend. But, love is love. People spend their life looking for true love, if he found it in that girl, he should forgive her and try to work things out. Things happen.
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Re: Confused with Campus Girlfriend
« Reply #11 on: January 29, 2013, 04:06:56 PM »
Don't hurry please what if the married man still loves her, don't risk please
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Re: Confused with Campus Girlfriend
« Reply #12 on: January 29, 2013, 04:56:27 PM »
Mahaja sometimes pregnancies are mistakes really...
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