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nsubugajohn

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Re: he wants more children.........
« Reply #15 on: January 11, 2013, 05:09:28 PM »
Usually, if a man says something, he usually means it. So, you just give more children to that man. You may give birth to a future pilot!! Who knows!!?
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Re: he wants more children.........
« Reply #16 on: January 14, 2013, 05:58:21 AM »
its not always a must if u have had enough why want more lol
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Mahaja Moses

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« Reply #17 on: January 14, 2013, 07:59:38 AM »
It actually depends on the number of children you agreed on as you were still dating because those are some of the questions you ask each other and if he goes beyond that pliz don't allow
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Nglenn

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Re: he wants more children.........
« Reply #18 on: January 14, 2013, 08:01:42 AM »
With this high standard of living make sure you give birth to the ones you will manage to look after.
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jonie

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Re: he wants more children.........
« Reply #19 on: January 16, 2013, 03:59:42 PM »
From the opposite side of this debate I would say consider your hubby's thoughts and desires and don't come to a rash decision. Try to talk through the issue without either person getting upset and even seek the advice of a marriage counselor to help you work through the issue. This is a major life decision that shouldn't be taken lightly. One approach is to discuss the issue, agree to disagree, then table the issue for a set period of time (say 6 months or a year). Even if you think there is no possible way you will change your mind a lot can change and it does not totally shut down your husband. Marriage about compromise and both of you will have to come to an agreement on the issue that both of you can live with
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Mary

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Re: he wants more children.........
« Reply #20 on: February 27, 2013, 04:53:00 PM »
Children  belong to both of you  , meaning it is the two of you that need to  decide  for you well know how you run your family and its  whereabouts.
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Re: he wants more children.........
« Reply #21 on: February 27, 2013, 05:26:08 PM »
May be your husband can actually provide for all the children he wants. Talk with him and see a way out
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Mahaja Moses

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Re: he wants more children.........
« Reply #22 on: February 28, 2013, 08:21:08 AM »
He wants more children because he deserves it
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Re: he wants more children.........
« Reply #23 on: February 28, 2013, 02:12:18 PM »
I think that is an issue you had to talk about before you got married and both of you be aware about it. The financial status does not dictate the number of children to some people. If you really love him, please obey because he will have them out if you refuse and that will be an excuse on his side.
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nsubugajohn

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Re: he wants more children.........
« Reply #24 on: February 28, 2013, 05:30:00 PM »
My dear, give birth to more children
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