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Author Topic: Just Married and Ready to Divorce  (Read 347 times)

jonie

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Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« on: January 16, 2013, 04:06:20 PM »
Just Married and Ready to Divorce Because of children's Behavior!

My friend just got married and thought once she was around, her husband's children would listen better.Unfortun ately,They have never had discipline that she know of and they basically do and say whatever they want! her husband tries to discipline, but then relents or coddles them after a punishment. she hasn't told him this is not right; they think they can do whatever they want!
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Reginah

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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #1 on: January 16, 2013, 04:22:33 PM »
The Lady is not right. Why did they go in for vows. ie for better for worse.
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sue

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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #2 on: January 16, 2013, 04:55:10 PM »
She should understand that those children need time to adjust to the whole situation.
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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #3 on: January 16, 2013, 05:02:21 PM »
I think what took you to that man was the love you have for him and Just Know whatever those kids do is how they were brought up. Just bear with it.
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suzank

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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #4 on: January 16, 2013, 05:14:08 PM »
She will learn how to  take care of these children, they will learn her and  start responding well to her,make her comfortable and she will save her marriage
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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #5 on: January 17, 2013, 09:57:33 AM »
However much she tries hard she will never succeed in this marriage. It is better she moves on and looks for a better relationship
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jonie

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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #6 on: January 17, 2013, 03:08:18 PM »
Am definitely coming to a conclusion that The best case scenario is to make a decision that is not emotionally based, nor driven by her ego.If this is her dilemma, then she will want to avoid responsibility at all costs by submitting a divorce paper
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OCHODIO MOSES

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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #7 on: January 17, 2013, 03:22:47 PM »
It is on rare cases that children respect their mothers than fathers and in addition to that, mothers always have too much love to their children to the extend that, they can not beat them. So the way her children behave reflects how she handled them during their childhood.
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nsubugajohn

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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #8 on: January 17, 2013, 04:22:24 PM »
The lady should just persevere with the marriage.
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jo

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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #9 on: January 17, 2013, 04:32:20 PM »
Those children have not yet seen the mother in her. She should give them time
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Janet

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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #10 on: January 17, 2013, 04:34:35 PM »
even though they are not her children, if those children grow up, they will refer to her as the woman in their father's life who did not teach those children discipline. And she should talk to the man and let her know where she stands, she should be able to confront these things without quitting. if her husband hates it, then let her do what is right by the children teach them some manners.
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suzank

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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #11 on: January 17, 2013, 05:13:47 PM »
To get married and keeping married is a commitment.Ther e are many other things which make marriage uncomfortable other than stubborn kids
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wetaka

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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #12 on: January 17, 2013, 06:12:26 PM »
This is people should be notified that before children there was love between them ..Children are supposed to be gifts...
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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #13 on: January 18, 2013, 10:18:10 AM »
 The problem is not between  her en the husband that  cant lead to divorce.She can talk with the husband how they can settle that problem
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Re: Just Married and Ready to Divorce
« Reply #14 on: January 28, 2013, 05:36:31 PM »
Lack of seriousness  and commitment , you would have remained single  for all time .
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