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jo

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Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« on: January 23, 2013, 05:03:25 PM »

i just recently discovered that my man has Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop. Does this mean that he still loves her and misses her. am so un happy with it that am considering a break up. What do you think? Advise please
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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #1 on: January 23, 2013, 05:09:20 PM »

I do not think that that man loves you. But tell him that if at all he loves you, he should delete all the pictures in your presence and if he doesn't, it means he doesnot love you.
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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #2 on: January 24, 2013, 09:48:37 AM »

Don't be rude and do not put him on pressure just make it romantic and the you ask him to remove them 
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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #3 on: January 24, 2013, 09:52:53 AM »

Its not good at all, he should respect you
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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #4 on: January 24, 2013, 02:54:44 PM »

Please Jo how did you find out those photo and if the owner of the laptop has not decided to remove them who are? Please i know he is not your first man and you also have things you still carry from your past relationships. If he does not call her, the photos should not bather you.
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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #5 on: January 24, 2013, 03:23:47 PM »

You are just up and down for nothing having those photos does not mean that he loves or misses her.please stay with your man.or you can ask him.
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jo

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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #6 on: January 24, 2013, 05:51:52 PM »

I talked to him about them and he didn't give any reason to why he still has them. I sometimes think that he even communicates with her. Am feeling so insecure and yet i love him so much. advise please
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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #7 on: January 24, 2013, 06:12:51 PM »

If he keeps photos of is girlfriend on his laptop ,he is still fantasizing about her ,he still longs to be near her and the best way is having her on his laptop.
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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #8 on: January 25, 2013, 11:10:02 AM »

He still take plight in his ex-girlfriend that is why he still wants to keep her memories even though she is gone.
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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #9 on: January 25, 2013, 03:54:20 PM »

My dear you should shun your man's property like a phone ...
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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #10 on: January 25, 2013, 05:11:57 PM »

so many people both men and women do these things and it's so painful finding out that people  who say that they truly care about us still go round our back.
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jo

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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #11 on: January 25, 2013, 05:22:16 PM »

@ Wetaka, am not yet married to him and i need to know every detail about him such that i dont regret in future when am married to him
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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #12 on: January 28, 2013, 03:03:21 PM »

This is not as serious as it seems, unless she is his desktop background or screen saver. yes, at first you might get scared and think he no longer loves you but talk to him, find out why he still has them. Even though you are supposed to move on from your past, it does not become non existent. understand and remember that.
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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #13 on: January 28, 2013, 03:10:28 PM »

Give your man enough privacy so that you do not get disturbed such things otherwise if you dont, you will be tomented by them and this will not be good for your health
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Re: Photos of his Ex girl friend on his laptop........
« Reply #14 on: January 28, 2013, 05:28:02 PM »

May be he doesn't know how to remove them you can talk to him and see how to go about it.
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